I learned something wonderful today – my beloved hates answering questions!
It’s no reflection on the state of our relationship. He’s not avoiding my specific questions. It turns out he just doesn’t do ‘feelings’ talk (except in very, very small doses). It seems to make his brain shut down – and he has such a nice brain too.
It may seem weird but this realisation has made me extremely happy. I haven’t promised to stop asking entirely but I’ll try to save it for the really important questions 🙂